Being successful - with the right attitude it works

Do you know how many successes and triumphs, how much fun and pleasure you are already escaped in your life, because you said: "I can not do that I am too stupid, too clumsy, too little talent, too old, too young. ... "?
Maybe you should be promoted, you have knocked out the post but because you did not trust to be up to the task.
Perhaps you would like to speak English in order to be able to read American books, but think ". I'm not gifted for languages"
But how do you know that you are not gifted not up to the task or the task?
What you lack is self-confidence. And why you're short of it? Because you have a negative self-image and trust nothing.
This undermines your self-confidence and ultimately prevents you from being personally and professionally successful.

Successful people are "I can" thinkers.

They often have no specific intelligence or talent. They are ordinary people who are different from the unsuccessful only in their settings.
Successful people use their skills and are confident to succeed and to achieve their goal. You believe in yourself and success.
A teacher once made an experiment that shows very clearly what power has the image that we have of ourselves.
She went into the class and announced: "It has been found that people with blue eyes are much more intelligent than people with brown eyes."
She gave the blue-eyed students with a sign saying "blue eye" and the brown-eyed students a sign with the words "brown eye".
What do you think happened? The blue-eyed students improved their performance tremendously thereupon, while the brown-eyed students fell off in their performance.
Then the Leherin went to class and announced that she had been wrong. The brown-eyed students were the more intelligent and the starry-eyed the less gifted.
Now the blue-eyed students fell off in their performance and the brown-eyed improved.
When we doubt ourselves, we condemn ourselves to failure or draw our skills are not fully out.
A teacher said a 15-year-olds once, this should leave the school because he was too stupid. The student left school and took up a crafting profession.
17 years later, at the age of 32 years, he was an intelligence test. It turned out that he had an IQ of 160. So he was a highly talented.

QUOTE TO SUCCESS
You can reach only what you think you can achieve.
Therefore, never underestimate your potential and skills.
Rolf Merkle

If we ourselves cajole, when we tell ourselves that we can do something and then we can cheer that and lead to success.
A beautiful example of this is Tommy Haas. At the Australian Open 2007 his soliloquies were recorded during a break.
He was initially very unhappy with himself and his power.
He said to himself: Too many errors. You can not win this. I can not. I do not get it.
Shortly before the game he built himself, however, again, by asking yourself well tried to persuade: I win this match. Fights. He won the match and moved into the semi-finals.